My story is here as well as an update.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1919962#Post1919962

I need to start cutting ties to my S. We have no kids, so after the D (which can become final Mar 1) I dont really need to see her again.

We had the same circle of friends and since we separated, some friends are on her side while others are "neutral". These neutral friends hang out with her from time to time, I havent been near them in a month. Since I will no longer be living in that city, Im going to cut ties to these friends.

Next I will be moving all of my stuff out of the house, including taking 2 of our animals. After the moveout, we will meet with the mediator to writeup the property settlement and D paperwork. I think the final tie will be the house. She is going to buy me out.

To help me move on with my life, I dont want to see or hear about her for a long time. Are there any other things I should cut off, ties that I may have missed?

Last edited by brknheart; 01/20/10 06:20 AM.
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M-11y

D talk-7/28/09
W Moved out-9/01/09
W wants D-9/22/09
W doesnt want D-12/1/09
W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09
W wants D-1/19/10
D Final-04/15/10