So, when she was ready to go, I was working on the computer and didn't get up or anything to walk her to the door. I did stop working to make eye contact and listen to her. She said she was heading out and I just said OK and we both said "Have a good night" to each other and that was it. Previously I would have followed her to the door and said something, but if I understand the 180s correctly, that would be clingy and needy.