No, I appreciate that you are in the same fashion world as I am!

Believe me, just having jeans and a t-shirt that fit snugly is a big change for me. I always wore my clothes too big. When I wear a color other than black (sorry, I wear a lot of black--it's a good color on me, it's my native NYer) people comment on it!

I was picturing a yoga-style spandexy-wrap thing, with a V-neck, in red (also a good color for me) I am always uncomfortable in anything other than a crew neck, and X was always encouraging me to be comfortable in something clingy and at least a little lower cut.

I am more comfortable now with tighter fitting things, but have to work on wearing other necklines!

And I love the look of a skirt, tights, and Ugg boots. What do the men say to that look?? Men?


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process