Situation not good. My H is treating me like a roomate. I actually told him that the other day and that I don't want to be his roomate. He flew off the handle and threatened to leave again. His exact words were " It will suck for Marek, and it will suck for Talan, but at least then i don't have to put up with this crap"
I can understand why you said that...it sounds like things are in a really precarious position where you feel like you are walking on eggshells. Just thinking though, it might have sounded accusatory to your H? What would it look like if he was not treating you like a roommate right now, yet still easing into things slowly? Do you have babystep goals identified for right now that let you know that progress is being made?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
