It's not easy, but treating my STBX in a loving way without being a doormat gives me a sense of peace. Being angry and holding a grudge doesn't make me feel that way so I think my plan of action works best for me. To each their own, right? Any thoughts?
I think that choosing peace is the best thing that we can do for ourselves, regardless of the wrongs done to us. I agree with you that choosing peace doesn't mean being a doormat.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
