Thanks for stopping by my thread! Yes, the selfishness... it is hard to comprehend. But like my IC says, that's trying to make sense of nonsense. She says these WAS' have completely lost their minds, so why would we try to make sense of a crazy person's logic? Hmmm...
Thinking tonight about being loving... debated a bit with my BF about tough love, holding WAS accountable vs. unconditional love, and forgiving others even when they don't seem to deserve it. She's is the tough love camp. I'm trying to practice living out 1 Corinthians 13 - being patient and kind, not keeping a record of wrongs, etc. It's not easy, but treating my STBX in a loving way without being a doormat gives me a sense of peace. Being angry and holding a grudge doesn't make me feel that way so I think my plan of action works best for me. To each their own, right? Any thoughts?
