I'm not sure that typical WAH stuff would work on him. I'm trying to understand if his low self esteem and abuse issues make him react differently than a typical WAH.
Can't comment on the abuse factor, but I'm guessing that low self esteem must be common among WAHs? People who are genuinely feeling good about themselves work on relationships that are essentially loving (and non-abusive) -- don't they?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
