DW, OMG!!! You hit the nail on the head and she totally validated what you said. What did you do? Did you go with them? I know it would have been tempting, oh another thing, did she ask in front of the kids so as to make you look bad if you declined?
I know we are not supposed to tell them what they have done or are doing but at some point is it okay to say in a polite calm manner.
"Wife, we were married for X number of years, have two beautiful kids, a nice house, etc. and you were unhappy, unfulfilled, un whatever, had an affair, left me wrecked our family......(hell we could all do this speech in our sleep).......I am curious, why would you think that I would want to be your friend? seriously?
Pop a beer for me Bro, cheers!!!
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