I was thinking that also, but explaining that I think that he should have the opportunity to tell him. I don't think I want her calling him up all angry and going off on him (not sure that is in my best interest). I also think she should be aware that he appeared depressed before he left, maybe she can help him. My daughter who will be with me is aware of the situation and has her own pain over it. Although he is not her father, he did help raise her and due to the fact that her father had very little to do with her growing up she had him walk her down the aisle at her wedding last September.
