You're right. Now that that's out of the way do you want to be right or married?
I'm not sure if its the way you write, your just venting or if you are really angry. Its completely understandable if your angry but hopefully your not communicating this to your W.
I agree that she should feel the consequences of her actions. However, its not up to you to ensure that she does. As long as you are playing the role of resident AH she gets to point at you as the problem versus looking in the mirror.
BTY..I like the ethics of your C.
No worries folks , just venting here... I'm, learning I cannot get much done when I'm in an angry disposition. I got my kids home spoke with w in civil tones and went and decompressed and soaked in a warm bath....... Kids all turned in early so no opportunity to speak with them,,,, I will sleep on this and reevaluate in the morning...
Thanks for the B!tch slap,, Im awake..
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09