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[OnceBurdened]

Why?
So she can find her feet and carry on walking out of your M?
I thought you wanted to reconcile?

She walks, she walks I'm not going to stop her. It is real, I am not going to pan for affection. I can get plenty of it without begging for it.

And this goes to prove everything I told you. She still wants out. She knows OB is a little old softy... a knight in shining armor... who comes to her rescue no matter what she does or intends to do. A doormat.

Once again G, I get it and that's fine. I am not going to change her mind. If she still has a foot out the door than she can go. Really, I don't feel like i'm being a softy. She has made a start and I've given her some leeway but, I haven't stopped my GALing - she's been tagging along with the family. I mean she could have met us at the hockey rink, and the restaurants, etc. but what would that prove?

To me nothing because I thought about doing just that. And I think I've shown that I'm a bigger man than that.

Stop watching. She is placating you and giving you something to shut you up until she can get all her ducks in a row so that she can walk again.

Maybe, but I'd rather placate with her than placate and be in an A myself. But I know exactly what your saying.

Listen OB, I would like nothing else more than to join the crowd singing. "FINALLY! Another Divorce Busted!! Wooooohoooo." I really, REALLY, REALLY would. But we know that these things don't get turned around like this overnight. I wish they did, but they don't. There is a process to DB'ing and there is a process towards Piecing. I don't think you're anywhere near piecing yet.

And I would agree- I am no where near saying D Busted. Really my CONCERN is , as I stated in another post, I may have DETACHED to FAR. Right now I'm listening,I got a booty call and there have been a couple of touching moments.

Maybe a little to flexible , but remember she does have legal rights. As for contact - I'll have to take her word on it for now. Sooner or later some form of trust has to kick in. Or maybe I don't care if she choses that p.o.s.. I know what I want.

I WANT SOMEBODY THAT WANTS ME.