Friday was an emotional outpouring. That was pure emotion and feeling talking. The stress from all her plans going awry. i.e.
- OB is not playing ball, - Loss of job and financials - OM not living up to his word
the second and third are temporary. I guarantee you that if OM contacts her and tells her he wants her she will fly like a bat outta hell from your home to him.
There are a lot of feelings and chemicals that need to be flushed out of her system. Hardship accelerates the flush.
If you can't kick her out of the home I can understand that.