Myself and my daughter are going to have lunch with my MIL (this is something we do almost monthly). She does not know that my husband no longer lives with me. I do not want to be the person who tells her that, I feel he should be explaining this to his parents. I kind of feel I am being dishonest if I have lunch with her and don't tell her. We don't normally sit around and talk about him but I wonder how she will feel when she finds out and realizes I didn't tell her.