Why did you leave and if you came back how much time did it take?
If any how long did the affair last and if it didn't last long--what happened?
What was it like knowing right from wrong and still causing that much pain?
What did you and your spouse do to get things on the right track?
Just trying to understand not trying to get anyone mad. Of course there are exceptions to all of this--physcal abouse is not acceptable in any form if that is why you left then i do understand
