Hi T2 ~ Your story about the cell phone sounds like it was a true turning point (not to mention the fact that H opened up about the AA person!). I see many happy year ahead of you TOGETHER!!!! I am so happy for you!
I, on the other hand, am headed in the other direction, but trying to DB 'til the very end. I know what you mean about being "calmer" now and I loved the tiger analogy!! I would love for you to visit me!! It's not over 'til its Over!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)