Shocked---yes true-maybe. I am not sure how i feel about the snooping around thing in general and struggled quite a bit with it before ever starting.

In the end I felt it was worth it in order to find out the truth, I went from March-Oct thinking that maybe I was imagining these problems and that she really just "fell out of love" Now I know that is not the case.

She probably does not want to challenge me on the use of this computer as she is also sending company info out to the OM in hopes of aiding his job search. They both worked at the same job, and OM got fired for performance issues about 4 months ago or so and now my W is forwarding him all of the contacts and rates, etc..to OM from her work computer and e-mail! So even though I am not sure about how I FEEL about the snooping it is not something that will ever see the light of day except between the 2 of us if that.

H: 30
W: 31
S: 2
T/M: 6/4
D Final 4-5-10

Bomb: June 09
Status: D'd and moving onward and upward?