Ya think? I think he's spending a lot of time sitting at his computer thinking about ways to make himself feel better.
"I feel sad today, oh I know, if I change my FB status I might feel better."
"I feel lonely today, how about I register at a dating site and see if someone will talk to me."
He's really wallowing in confusion, pain and (probably) self pity ... creating the illusion to himself that he's moving on.
KJ one of the things I realised about myself when I went through my divorce is that when you are moving on, it's a very natural thing. You don't spend a lot of time fiddling FB status or looking at people's profiles on match.com - you are out there living. It's the times you are stuck and unhappy that those things fill your time and your mind.
He's a sad fella .... and you know the only thing for you to do is let him live his journey. It's not about you KJ. It's really, really, really not.
Thinking of you. V
Last edited by Walking; 01/20/1001:57 AM.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
