Update - H calls saying he wants to know what my intentions are for the marriage. I tell him that I have not changed my stance of wanting to work on it and he tells me that he is doing ok w/o me and wants to talk about ending it.
I was so stunned and said that he how he has acted through the whole R - always wanting to leave so if that is what he wants then he should do what he needs to do. I was a bit angry when I said it and I hung up - couldn't do this w/o the emotions - I am very upset.
I don't know if he really wants to end it or he is just testing the waters to see how I feel? Should I wait to see what he does. talk to him further or let it go?
