Well I was stupid. I hadn't checked H's email in quite some time, but today I did..and he has registered on match.com and chemistry.com.
what a doofus.
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couldn't see getting into a relationship again for quite a while...
He probably did mean that when he said it, but it's lonely where he is, the nights are long, there's no one to keep him company ... and hey ... why not register at dating sites for a bit of sport?
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I feel stupid for having any slim hope that he'll come back to me.
You know how much the world changes in the blink of any eye. KJ anything can happen. Nothing is impossible. Nothing.
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I shouldn't take it personally..there is no easy way for our spouses to fill that void without it causing the LBS some pain is there?
Exactly. Now your doing it.
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I know when H moved out, in his mind he already was divorced and free..but I'm not there yet, not after 22 years with this man.
and that's OK. You don't have to be. Frankly, I don't think your H knows where he is. He's bouncing around like a man being controlled by his inner 7 year old.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
