Can any good come out of giving W some "space"

[brknheart]

Well, I came back from vacation today. Since her call that I didnt answer yesterday, I had it in my mind she was calling to say when can I move my stuff out and she decided she wants the D. Well, I was right. She sent me a txt when I was on the plane and I called her back. At first she asked me about a bill, then she asked "When can you move your stuff out?" The exact thing I thought would happen. I said so you want a D, she said yes. I said ok. I needed to know what happen last month when she came back, why she did this. She said she was scared and thought we could work on things. I asked what made her feel we couldnt work on things, she said she didnt know and she would have to think about it. WTF?! How can she not know that? Either she is lying to me or mentally unstable. She say she is still scared. She said she knew she didnt want to work on things 2 weeks ago, but also knew I was going on vacation and didnt want to ruin it. Then I tell her im coming next week to get my stuff and she says I need to get a hotel room. It will take about a week to pack, at least. This upset me, I told her I need the house for week. She heard me getting upset and said we can talk about this in a couple of days.

So, im not in limbo anymore. This is the 3rd time she has said "its over" since we separated. Im throwing in the towel, there isnt anything else I can do.