Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Oh man, anxiety just came back. This sucks. Had a young man come talk to me about how he has changed his life, seen the light, looking to earn trust back, so sorry he lied about an incident, etc, etc. All I could when he was done was think about W. I gave her 2nd chance, will probably give her 3rd chance since she is still in contact with OM. Put that darn sinking feeling in the stomach along with the pounding in the chest. And I was doing so well today. Frustrating.

If this young man can show the humility, admit his mistakes, and beg for another chance, why can't someone as intelligent and experienced in life as my W? That's what keeps running through my brain.

Now the other debate. Do I share some of this story with W? This is something I normally would share, but it might seem like pressure at this point, so not sure. but she does know of this person's past and the issue that caused him to now relfect and change his life.