I think we rush to get our H's home. When they come home before they are really ready; they end up leaving again. Making it harder for them to reconnect with us.
I would rather we take our time in reconnecting, making sure H is absolutely sure he is committed to working on saving the M.
There are still no gaurantees that it will still work. The point I guess I'm trying to make is; don't rush it, take one day at a time. Reconnect first as friends. Work slowly at rebuilding. Afterall rushing to build a house only leaves room for mistakes. Those mistakes could make the house cave in! Now who would want that to happen!
One thing I have learned here is, from those that have made some mistakes. So I'll avoid going down the interstate, I'm taking the backroads. It might be slower getting there, but at least I have a better chance of getting there in one piece!
I feel there are a few here that I know make mistakes, but they are like my children; they have to learn their mistakes on their own. The more advice I give them the more they run down the wrong path. Makes me sad, because I can't help them.
The wise ones are the ones who listen to those that have been "there". Use their advice to fit their stitch! Believe me, I have a very special person here on this BB who has helped and guided me! With her support I'm here where I belong; in piecing! T2, you have this honor!
You are a very smart lady! And don't you forget it! Sometimes you make me LMAO. Sometimes, you don't believe and I have to walk beside you, support you. I'm honored that I have helped you also!
There are others here that have supported me and I have let them know how much I appreciated their help! But this lady here on this thread has saved me from depression many times. Yes, T2, I hear you! I could have made it here, but I needed someone to tell me the postives, things I couldn't see, duh!
So I'm sending you this special post and to all here who read it!
{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
Deb aka imalright12960
So enough of this goop. I have 4 bottles of pink Champaign, and when H and I become one of those success stories; I will be toasting to you! And someday there are going to be a group of us that all must get together with our H and meet! And I believe someday it WILL happen. Kitti you know you are one of them, you sweetie!
