Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I don't have my kids tonight so I will be able to just focus on job hunting. I checked with my previous employer and they don't have any openings right now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Kevin, I have a group that I think would be perfect for you. They meet Wednesday nights at Irving Bible, just down Regent from where you work. It's called Next Connect and they walk through resumes, interviews, networking, etc. It's run by several recruiters from Oracle and other places, one of which specializes in Business Analysts like you. I haven't been since getting the new job, but it'd be cool to swing by and update them. You in for tomorrow night?
Jon
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I don't need to give her one more reason to doubt me. Lord knows she holds enough reasons to not come back against me.
But she already wants to divorce you. "Another" reason isn't going to change things.
You want to show some improvement? Do your damnedest to have a new job lined up by the time this contract is over. At the very least, have resumes out and be waiting for interviews.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I can't tomorrow night, but I can definitely make next Wednesday night. That sounds like a great idea.
TrentC,
That is what I am doing. I already have 2 prospects. I will be working the rest of the night on this as well.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Honestly, I don't even have time to think about my W right now. This is actually probably the kick in the butt I needed to jumpstart myself to a better career.
W did come by to get the girls tonight. She came in and talked to me while I was making dinner. She told me a bit more about her prospects and what she has been doing the past 2 days. D8 was torn up because she didn't know if she wanted to stay with me or go with W even though it was W's night with her. I know it is hard on her.
I was completely cool through it all. I didn't let on any hints or signs about my job sitch. I just merely said that things sound good for W and hopefully it all works out well for her.
Her and the kids left and I finished dinner and have been working on my job hunt since. I have sent out tons of resumes. I am also going through tutorials tonight. I have a phone interview in the morning that I am also preparing for.
Busy busy...
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Kevin, Great, I need a night off tomorrow. Let's plan on next week.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
