Things have gone from bad to worse. H is so upset about us being upside down in the house that today he called a lawyer about filing bankruptcy. After several phone conversations/arguments with him today, he has told me that with certainty he is done and wants a D as soon as possible.

I’m so upset, and can’t even function right now. All my friends tell me it’s time for me to go talk to a lawyer. It appears my DB’ing has not worked )-:

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10