I am moving on, CB. No, I'm not claiming to be healed and healthy and not still thinking thinking about him.

But I am making great progress in building my own life. Thinking about a career change. Doing new things. Buying new blouses! (when not side tracked by wool under garments)

So even if I were 100% moved on--couldn't care less if I never saw the guy again--tell me how he would know that if he never saw me or spoke to me?

I'm glad to hear about your prep for ladybug. And if you are going to wear clothes that you know she likes--and new shoes so she "can see I changed my style" how is that different than me using an opportunity to do the same thing?

I'm glad you are prepared to be both "hot" and "cool." You'll do great.

But be careful with those candles! wink


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process