My interpretation for what its worth is that the visitation begins at 3pm. He is supposed to let you know if he is coming before that time and if he doesn't then it is over. The timing just states how long or short the visits are to be - not to be interpreted that he can come or go during those hours in full.
But ask lawyer to pin that down. Even can insist that he let you know at a certain time he is coming.
but the rest... you are improving and doesn't it feel great!
I cannot imagine the Court/judge expects you to wait with or without notice, for 3 hours, however many days a week, for him to possibly show up. No way. Call your L...what are you waiting for?
It's crazy and you're so used to this that you can't see it. No one here thinks this is normal or okay. Sorry but that's my 2 x 4 for the day. Fix this. Treat it like a date. IF he can't call you ahead of time b/c his brain surgeries/NASA trips to the moon (Oh wait, his work isn't doing this. It's just his OTHER kids and so, he'll NEVER change this and you will ALWAYS tolerate it? That's NUTS!)....so as I was saying, if he cannot call you ahead of time to cancel, I'd wait 15 min and then "times' up" and leave. WITH her, or with a sitter but you cannot spend your life waiting for him.
Otherwise you're making progress. It's time...
That's my .02
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