K we all know how hard this journey is Our H seem so oblivious to our hurt and there is NO way out -except through it for us-and it is so painful We cant reach them they have to explore it all on their terms You already know all of this the only thing I can say is we make it through and as Ive read here recently, we are the lucky ones b/c as time passes our H amd xh create all kinds of pain for themselves we just continue to grow we try to support them as best as we can hoping it will come to a postive outcome for us and our kids sometimes it does and will time--lots of time it seems to take and lots of faith hang in tomorrow will be better your H will not find the happiness he seeks outside of him and on match.com but it is for him to realize our time now is to heal grow and do whats right the rest will be done for us peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow