you have my attention!!! and yes I'm new, confused, tired , depressed and SCARED. Maybe 2x4 s are not enough. maybe 4x8s. And yes, the "nice guy" thing fits. I guess i try to rationalize the irrational.People here told me to go out, GAL, do 180, LRT. I'm re-reading the DR book . I'm re-reading my thread and others. Trying to exercise while running a small business. Not excuses, just facts. YOU ALL KNOW how tough this is!!!! AND AND , YES, i'm HOPING (maybe in denial) that my wife remembers who she loved and wanted not that long ago and comes to her senses. Folks please don't throw me out with the bathwater.
