Her actions at the time line up...when we are apart they do not...I will be back home Friday though...even though she still says she wants a divorce we are not separating...said she wants to reevaluate in 6 months...I think some of it is cake eating though because she is still heavily pursuing and involved with her internet EA. I am going to have to strike a balance in this thing...The good thing is she usually is a very open person with me about these things...OM gets mad when she says these things because she usually also backs off from him some. He told her that if he did not get to see her soon or she was not able to get rid of me soon he thinks he would lose her. When she asked him for time to work on herself he also told her he did not think he could wait that long...but she is SO caught up with what he is doing and what she is pursuing that she can't see it for what it is and has to make excuses to justify what he said. Also usually after we have had a good day and she talks to him we have a few really cold days. So I know that if he ever screws up and she is able to really see what I am doing for what it is that things have a good chance of working out.
I have an idea how to go about this it is just some of the logistics I am not sure about.
