BM, I think you hit the nail on the head. If you want my honest opinion I think the only reason he is being nice is b/c he is worried sick that S17 will come home and he will loose all that money that goes with him. That's precisely why I don't feel like being nice back
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15