Looking to the board for some help here. The DB coach with whom i've had several convos ,(and knows my personality fairly well based on our talks) has made a few suggestions. The DB coach thinks that perhaps a real 180 FOR ME (not necessarily some one else in DB) would be to show a real reaction . something like raising my voice ,slamming the door, smashing the phone ,and storming out! Really out of character for me And difficult!. I need some more guidance on this, but i can't easily pick up the phone and talk to the coach. Appointments are not that easy to get and it is costly(but worth it).
