Don't stress too much about the job sitch...more than likely she is waffling in her own mind a lot right now. It seems like most WAS's do at this point. If you keep working on YOU, then it is more likely she will see YOU as the better option to OM or any OM, and especially to being a single parent. If you let yourself get too worried about this, there is a tendency to send off vibes of tension or pressure... which could push her away. Even if you are worried, send off a relaxed "we'll figure it out" kinda vibe. Do you still have some time before any decisions get made on this?