I am...I think I am coming up with a balanced plan that is a mix of everything...Hope that makes sense...I am noticing some things working...mostly me doing me...Like I said I do remember the man she fell in love with but I am not just trying to be that man...I see someone who is a lot more whole, healthy, loving, and strong trying to peek out and I really like who I am becoming in this...Hasn't been long though. I have only been doing this for a week at best but I guess having a made up mind helps. I have made a decision and am following it and that feels GOOD!