Those are good points. I have been thinking about 180's for me regarding the financial aspect of our lives. It's hard b/c I do it all! He can't handle it. It's been that way for quite a few years. I have tried to be as proactive as I can, although I think the only thing left I can do is see a financial advisor. But, H would never agree to that or be comfortable with it, so I'd either have to do that without him knowing, which isn't good for moving forward with honesty in our M, or just do it whether he liked it or not, which isn't good for the "teamwork" approach we are working on.
anyway.. the best 180 I feel I can do right now re: this is to be more emotionally detached regarding his responses to the financial situation. I am working on that, and getting better at it... although still find that hard.
