Yeah I know some of the mystery is not really putting myself out there anymore...She is losing where I am at. Of course she also tries to say that these changes are good because it means I am not wanting to be with her anymore. I just told her I need to do me right now.I did not tell her just because I am moving on does not mean I do not want her. I am finding out though that I want her I do not need her. I am already becoming my own person and it feels good.
