Michelle, he called and said "I am done with the tests, no need to come over, I am going to work" and then called again, and said he is going out after work with the guys to convince someone to join their newspaper. So, no, I dont think he has his priorities straight. But, he did say, he will think about the life insurance I have asked him before and he considered it a bad luck move. Maybe he realised it's just selfish. I couldnt raise the kids without his income. K