Perhaps I could have articulated it better. If my articulation was hurtful then I will certainly take accountability for it.
I feel that often times WE ALL are so bent on wanting or making our WAS to feel consequences we often forget lack of action (and I include myself in this) on our part to avoid unpleasant consequences on our end goes forgotten.
Kevin gets REALLY sad when he takes a personal hit, especially when he feels his W will frown upon it. To avoid that, IMO, it seems there are many actions he can take to wipe that issue out for the long haul.