She wants separate phones and her credit is wrecked...I had decided to pay rent, utilities ( except for internet because I am not going to pay for her to video chat and cybersex with OM) and food when I am there. The rest she is going to have to handle. She wants make up get a job...she wants a movie get a job...I just know she is resentful because things have started working out for me in the workforce and she is already upset about nothing to do. I am going to do what I have to do to be a better more healthy man but at the same time I do not want to come off as trying to do these things to get to her. Make sense? I know her first remark will be it must be nice to go out. Quit trying to make me feel bad and manipulate me. She still hasn't really gotten the fact that I am changing for me. Regardless of how OR comes out I know I have to come out walking on my own two feet.
