Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

Gnosis,

I have set that boundry and she will not be hitting me again or I will can police. This will also cost her her job as she works for a school district.

Maybe I have your situation mixed up with someone else's, but haven't you already called the police about her hitting you?

I threatened to once but I did not mean it and she knew it. This time she knew and was very worried. She started crying and feels that now she is becoming the same abuser she had to put up with as a child.

I need to keep it together until she starts IC on Feb 3rd.

She knows of her anger issues and readily admits them. She wants IC but still even today (child like state of mind) wants me to take care of taxes, lawyer, C, etc.

I set her first appointment like she asked, the C will set the rest and W will gladly go as she wants to be better for the children. I have faith that IC will help our R as well. As she handles her individual issues (as I am handling mine) we will then start to make forward progress in MC