I have set that boundry and she will not be hitting me again or I will can police. This will also cost her her job as she works for a school district.
OK LHS... now I'm even MORE interested in catching up with everything you've written!!!
You set that boundary but FAILED to enforce it. I know it's going to be and extremely tough one to execute. When she crosses that boundary AND SHE has before and WILL again. You call the police. You get them to come to the house to show that you are not bluffing. This will create the RESPECT she needs for you. You get them to right up the charges.
Don't worry, it won't be the end of her career. You tell the cops that you'll be there the next day to file charges. Then you let her stew overnight.... and the next day. That evening you go to the police station and withdraw the charges.
Call your lawyer (go to the police station if you have to) and find out how far you push before it goes on record. This is so you can give her a reprieve later. BUT SHE NEEDS TO STEW IN IT FOR A WHILE.
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