Just making a note and an observation on my sitch.
My W does not think beyond her nose, never has but I feel it is more evident since all this crap began. I answered the phone last night when she called to say goodnite to S9 but still no confirming of meeting for tonight at 6:10 so S9 can eat dinner with her, she drives out to house to drop him off at 8:30 (this is the extent of her visitation with him, 4-6 hours a week). I was short with conversation only said "hi, how's it going" and "hold on I will get S9".
Today at work get email from her. W: can we meet at same place tonight? M: yes, that is okay. W: Thank you.
I know this is uneventfull stuff, but if I keep the conversation limited to this level, do I need to worry about not having enough interactions to show changes or should I keep it at this minimum level?? I am thinking keeping it at a minimum, but we communicate almost daily either via email, or in person.
