Jeff, here's my take on this...

For men who have had their self-esteem beaten to a pulp by their WAW's then I highly recommend social interaction. There is no better remedy for a man's perception of self than to know that there are women out there who want HIM.

As for as the idea of jumping into a new relationship... HELL NO! You're not healed yet and all you're doing is delaying the healing you need to go through.

I haven't gone out on any "dates" per se... that's just me. Not because I'm pining away for my W. I know I turn eyes on occasion -- I've seen women checking me out. My attitude right now is, "You should be so lucky." I'm just having too much fun at the moment enjoying myself and my freedom and I don't want to get tied down with any kind of relationship.

Just my 2c.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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