Oh, I get it. I hate it, but I get. I have implicity "agreed" to many things now.

I let this go waaaayyyyy too long. I haven't filed because we're doing mediation. We've been trying to see if we can get it done that way. If we can't, then I have to file. Our first mediation meeting was a couple months after she moved out. All the advice I was getting told me to do mediation. Suing for divorce in our state is a nightmare, so 90% of people go through mediation.

I think mediation is still the way we're going to go, but I want to know what my options are if we reach an impasse.