It was great advice but it is not easy to follow. Because I don't know anybody that goes through a divorce and does not feel *something*. And when you are feeling that *something* at the same time you are sitting across from an attny who is telling that the *something* while important to you is not important to the process, well, it's tough.
I did it because I was SO PISSED but I would not let my H in my house after he left as long as he was in his A. This was long before I even spoke to an attny. This was sheer emotion and to avoid ME going to jail (lol!) because if I got him behind closed doors a murder might have taken place. And it my attny said it was wise. I cut my H out of my life therefore giving NO indication I was "on board" w/the divorce or his affair.
