For me and my "W", I truly think the D HAD TO happen in order for us to even have the remote possiblity of a second chance that we are in now half a year later from it.
It brought closure to the M problems. It brings me no shame now to say the M was in fact irrevocably broken. Everything that transpired up to the S clouded over that happiest of days when we married.
Give it time, and I think you may find that relief.
And also as I type this, I am reminded, I could have chosen anyone, and so could she. We are after all free to go. But here we are, and I'll tell you what, since our original day is wrecked, I'm starting to favor the idea of doing it all over again.
With a pre-nup of course
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
