REading yoru last post reminded me of how often I felt the way you do in the first few months of piecing.
I think it was the back log of emotion, the anger, the doubts (about how I really felt, about how HE really felt), the uncertainty about the future...will THIS be enough???....that contributed to the periodic NECESSITY to have a sit down chat about OR.
I'm not 100% sure it made a huge difference in the progress in our M, but it felt like I HAD to do it or start getting all nasty again...I could FEEL the tension and irritability rising.
I suppose what I wanted to do is reassure you that as things move on, as things ARE addressed (and I don't mean perfectly...exactly as we expect) and comfort levels increase, that cycle seems to be slowing...not to get overly optimistic..but it's been quite a while...
