K4D It's a Wonderful Life

[K4D]

I must have missed the post where FaithfulH advised not to split the finances.

Me and FaithfulH discussed on the phone and then at our DBing meetup for sushi.

I understand that it's a shock. I'm just not sure why her opinion of your financial stability is important, unless it affects support and/or visitation.

It is just that the first time around, W used career stability against me. I can just see that coming back now.

Why wait, you worked, you got laid off that's what it's for...There's absolutely no shame in filing...Heck if I was you I would start the paperwork today since you know your end date (that's what I advise my contractors to do), why would you give up that money?

I didn't think you could file until your employment ended.

Kevin