She will initiate RESPECTFUL conversation a little more...got it. I will choose two or three to really focus on. Thanks Gardner.

Okay anyone have thoughts on staying occupied and my concerns listed there, how to handle them and maybe some suggestions?

One thing today...Making the decisions to do something for myself felt really good! Working out is paying of too. Did my ab ripper today and once I was done I actually am starting to look different now. A little ripped...This made me feel REALLY good and I think my self confidence is coming back some.

Well any suggestions on how to handle my concerns on my post about joining the drum circle and martial arts are welcome. I needem. Thanks

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