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[Gnosis]

LHS I haven't been of any help to you. All I asked you to do was THINK...

With that I'll leave you with a template for setting and enforcing boundaries:

Setting: When you _____, I feel ______, I want __________ .
Enforcing: if you ______ I will __________ .

I'd like you to consider that your W has a childlike mind.
She will need disciplining.
She WILL be testing your boundaries.
She WILL need to be reprimanded by you ENFORCING your boundaries.
Remember, boundaries are for YOU and how YOU want to be treated.

Here's a boundary that you should have set the minute she lay a hand on you:

When you hit me and lash out in anger, I feel you're taking advantage of me because you know I will not strike you back. I want this to stop from this point forward. If you ever lay a hand on me again I will call the police and lay charges against you. It's not something that I want to do.