Geez, reading that Smartcookie post just tore me apart.
That is indeed a glimpse into X Mr.Avermont's heart.
He said "he is done."
I said "I can change."
He said, "I don't think you can."
That sentence particularly hurt, as in an email to OW he said " I know, people change, circumstances change" in response to their talking about his leaving me.
And HE certainly changed.
And it also hurts that he left so completely that I have no chance to show him my changes, or how much I am willing to work on the R.
But good G-D almighty, that little story seems to say it all...
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
